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Peach and I do this because we don’t swap on-and-off going from one location to the other.
At one point, I’d gone to see him four times before he could come visit me due to class/work schedules.
-Dyane Dear Dyane, ” And there’s nothing charming about the tragedy of being between a rock and hard place.
This, of course, is what LONG DISTANCE often feels like for couples. Did you spend a lot of time with friends and family? But the danger lies in when we become TOO dependent on our partners to make us happy. My relationship is “pure luxury” only because I make the effort to make myself happy.
Like any relationship, long distance has it’s ups-and-downs and pros-and-cons. ” The short answer: I use the 80-20 Rule, except my application is different.
Yes, sometimes he insists on paying for a date and in an effort to not be completely emasculating I allow it — after profusely asking if he’s sure and if he can afford.
It’s easy to hold resentment about your financial investment if your partner isn’t matching your contributions to keeping the relationship alive.
In a pseudo-feminist way, Peach doesn’t shoulder the burden of our “dates” when we see each other.
The long answer: I’m well-suited for this type of relationship. I have no interest in settling down, cohabitation, having a “ring put on it,” nor starting a family on this side of my thirties.
I appreciate the independence of long-distance and my ability to make plans at a whim without having to check-in with someone’s schedule.